What “Miss Independent” Reveals About Attachment, Boundaries, & the Fear of Letting People In

What do Kelly Clarkson lyrics have to do with attachment theory and emotional boundaries? A lot more than you’d think. Miss Independent isn’t just an early-2000s anthem—it’s a surprisingly accurate exploration of avoidant attachment, hyper-independence, and what it means to let love in without losing yourself.

Modern Relationships, Mental Health 101Melissa GluckJune 21, 2025attachment style, attachment theory, codependency, boundaries, interdependence, relational self-awareness, secure relationships, avoidant relationship